
It is impossible to ‘make’ a horse do
anything.
Because horses are preyed upon in nature, these sensitive,
intuitive creatures have a highly developed ability to respond to their
environment. Subtle
changes and nuances that we may not be aware of can provoke reactions
in the horse that give us information about ourselves. Their responses
help us identify behaviours that impact our lives and careers in a negative
way or keep us from moving forward. Through the authentic connection
that horses require of us, we learn to clearly communicate our intentions.
Horses respond with trust and full engagement – just what leaders
are looking for from their employees, and just what employees are
looking for from their supervisors and place of employment.
Horses teach us the difference between willingness
and compliance. From
this we understand how to engage with colleagues and staff in a way that
will produce quality performance.

Clear and Direct Communication
Horses do not deal in ambiguity. When horses communicate
they are not trying to please you or avoid confrontation; what you
see is what you get, and they expect the same from you. Horses thrive on direct
communication that keeps things clear and congruent in their environment. What
or how you tell them is what they react to. If you are not clear
about what you want from them, it becomes obvious, because they either
do what they think you have asked of them, or they become anxious because
of the ambiguity -often misinterpreted as ‘bad’ behaviour.
Isn’t that what happens on the human side of life? We think
we are communicating our needs clearly, however, people don’t respond
the way we think they should. We decide they are not smart, have a bad
attitude, are too uptight or just don’t ‘get’ it. We
lose trust. Horses show us how communication, clarity and trust
are linked. They insist that we are clear about what we want and
how we ask for it, which leads to strong team connection and cohesiveness.
Learning and Results
When interpersonal relationships don’t work or are less than optimal,
so are business results. Horses as coaches in leadership show us
the critical importance of trust and understanding in relationships – and
how that impacts learning and results. If horses learn that they can
trust you to do what you say you are going to do and ask clearly for
what you want, they will almost always comply. They show us how our relationship
to them can produce poor or wonderful results
Teamwork and Horses
Here are some of the many ways teams can work with The Spirit of Leadership
Program:
- Learn to re-connect and build a seamless approach where
everyone understands each other and works to achieve a common goal
- Bring different teams together to build cohesion where
all the energy is being channelled towards a common goal
- Create a shared understanding where there are ‘cultural’ and ‘language’ barriers
across functions and countries.
- Train in problem
resolution and conflict strategies
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